As men we are always restless in our lives.
We long for SOMETHING that will fill our lives with purpose, meaning, significance.
We are always searching for that missing piece– that accomplishment, that woman, that adventure, that success, that friendship, that deep understanding that will make us feel full…
At times we think we have found it, we enjoy it (or her) for a fleeting a moment, and then once again we find ourselves searching, yearning, unsatisfied.
Nathan and I have been talking a great deal lately about man’s need for significance, our need to feel WORTHY as men.
What is it that keeps men boiling with unanswered desire, this search for meaning?
And is there a real place of worthiness where we finally can confidently take our place with other worthy men and feel – once and for all – entitled to the undying loyalty and total love of our perfect, ideal woman… indeed of ANY and ALL women?
This week I’m going to share what I believe is an important insight that helps to unlock this puzzle and gives you the freedom and the power of ultimate worthiness in the eyes of women, other men, and most importantly: yourself.
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Great video, Alex! I believe it is all about what we choose to identify with; when it is with our ego mind, we are poised to WANT approval, control or safety, never being and having enough, wanting to prove ourselves, living in fear, comparison… By contrast, when we identify with spirit/ God inside, we HAVE approval, control and safety, are perfect, no better or worse than others, preferring to be happy than compare ourselves with others and be special…and she automatically follows this ”judgment”.. Men or women who don’t want to impress, are by far the most impressive. Just being there. Bojo
I think the point is to stop asking the why about our worth ([over]analyzing) and just be in the moment. Alex’s last statement is probably the most profound answer to opining my own worth – Why am I worthy? Because I decided why.