Every man knows that the “secret answer” to getting what he wants in his life is more confidence.

...It’s the thing that would get him more attraction, choice, and ease with women (or more admiration, passion, and ease with the woman he’s got).

...That would boost him into achieving the goals and big plans and dreams that are always slipping farther away… but we just know could be possible for us.

...It’s the missing piece that wins influence, respect, and the ability to set our own course and be the captain-on-deck of the ship of our lives.

Even for men who have a lot of it already, we all want more of it.

In fact, you can’t pick up a men’s magazine or look at the home page of a men’s website that doesn’t have an article promising an easy technique to get the magic of “bullet-proof self confidence.”

And while I don’t doubt these articles mean well, we’d all be monsters of confidence by now if any of that stuff actually worked. In fact, and you might know this first hand:

For most men, some of that advice can make things much worse.

What Works To Build Confidence: Chicken or Egg?

I think at some level, we all feel like there is some ACHIEVEMENT out there that would make us radically more confident--

Like if you had a gorgeous and adoring woman on your arm, a fat wallet and an Italian sports car, or an important and influential position of authority... it would be EASY to feel confident!

...Or is that that you first need more confidence to GET those achievements?

The “Self Help” Trap

So should you “fake it ‘til you make it”? Write “affirmations” in a journal? Stare into the mirror and tell yourself you’re awesome? Use the power of body language? Spend a few years on an analyst's couch figuring out how your parents messed you up?

Or does doing these things you feel weak? like a faker? like less than the Man you want to be when you resort to those things?

So what does work to build a man’s confidence and steely-eyed belief in himself?

I’m going to tell you the counter-intuitive truth that allows a man to step into his most powerful life and his deepest sense of purpose. And it’s something that lives hidden in your heart already:

Self Trust

It is only SELF TRUST that fills a man with REAL confidence-- the kind that radiates off of you in a way that women and other men can feel from 10 feet away.

In saying that, I’ve got to slap on a big warning label: Most men have no idea how to access their true Self Trust. They confuse it with crap like showing off and doing reckless stupid-shit with their lives. (Which, I’m not going to kid you, can be a ton of fun, but it’s not going to get you any closer to the real FREEDOM you crave).

The thing that stops men from hearing the truth of their Self Trust is their fear of “getting it wrong,” or of not doing that elusive “right thing,” or their shitty self-critical voice, or the fear of ridicule and humiliation…

But when you access your Self Trust in the right way, you can break free of those fears off as easily as handcuffs made of tissue paper. And then you can get onto your True Path as a man.

Because once you get past your fears, the confidence to get the things that have frustrated you in the past becomes easy. In fact, click here to read about how you can access YOUR Self Trust in a way that gives you power over achieving your goals, forges important friendships with other powerful men, and triggers automatic attraction from your woman… and why most men go their graves without ever allowing themselves to take that step.