Cold Approach: The Rules, The Tools, And The Cool Of Meeting Women

Specifically, there is a general trend towards social isolation, and it’s having a huge impact on how men and women hook up, date, and mate… Or not.

People are NOT dating as much as they used to. People are not getting into relationships as frequently as they used to… and people are having a LOT less sex in every age bracket. And the trend looks like it’s going to get worse because rates of sex are down the most for the youngest demographics.

They are jerking off to porn, they are staring at FB and instagram, they are complaining that “women suck” and that “men suck” and while they may smugly declare that they are “going their own way,” the fact is that they are lonely, angry, and dissatisfied.

Because people suck at meeting each other, they suck at the same social skills that allow them to have good relationships. Because they suck at good relationships, there are fewer lasting relationships, and fewer kids with healthy role models.

It is true that women are more suspicious of men and that it many ways it’s harder than it’s ever been to strike up a conversation with a stranger– but it’s still an important skill, there are still plenty of women who are just screaming for decent men to approach them with confidence and authenticity and masculinity… and it’s still FUN. And not only will it get you laid, but it might actually be the way you meet the woman of your dreams.